The feeling of jealousy is not entirely foreign even within the couple. Some couples, despite the fact that they exchange pairs in certain situations, are dominated by the feeling of jealousy.
Partner Swapping and jealousy
It is not necessarily true that an swinging encounter is totally devoid of any form of jealousy. There are many couples who have feelings that conflict with the concept of partner swapping.
In some cases the feeling of jealousy is so slight that it goes unnoticed, in other cases, when it is more pronounced it can also create strong discomfort. In the most worrying cases it can even lead to litigation and in extreme cases to the separation of the couple itself.
Do you have jealousy in the swinging?
I have to answer this question with a “depends”. First of all, you have to define what kind of feeling you have. Often, a mutual sympathy is established between the couples, which over time is transformed into friendship. In other cases, they remain sentimentally detached, in other cases, the literary lightning strike can also occur. In that case they are serious troubles. The cases of couples who have been divided by the skidding of one or the other partner are many. If this feeling is reciprocated, in some cases a new couple will form and there will be two more singels in circulation.
The most particular case is that of two couples who have literally exchanged in life and then continue to see each other with their respective former partners in the game of swinging. But these are exceptional cases, more unique than rare and should not be considered as normal.
Partner swapping as shock therapy
The game of the swinging of torque in some situations, if performed with head can also result in an excellent approach to impact on excessive jealousy by a partner. Obviously in that case even the jealous partner will have to consider with awareness the fact of proceeding to a meeting with strangers, during which he will practice libertine sex.
In any case, there are several cases of couples with him excessively, jealous or even she who after entering the swinger world can calm the feeling of jealousy, which if taken to the extreme can be disastrous for a couple.
The fact of being able to control and observe a “betrayal” organized in some subjects gives a kind of sense of control, weakening the feeling of jealousy. Moreover, the fact of “betraying” in turn, the jealous partner will have a kind of revenge that will not let him see the situation more tragic than it is in reality.
However, it should be considered that each individual may react differently, depending on the situation and the mode.
Jealousy in hearing one’s partner enjoy
For some couples, the fact of feeling intensely enjoyed by their partner with a person outside the couple is a source of extreme excitement. However, in some cases, if this situation is excessive, it can negatively affect the balance of the couple.
For example, suppose that your partner never reaches orgasm during anal sex, but at the time of the swinging during the penetration of his ass, reaches an orgasm so intense as to arouse the jealousy of the respective partner. Then a complex mixed jealousy mechanism of inferiority will take over, transforming the situation into something to forget.
However, even without resorting to extreme sexual practices, there are plenty of couples, where both he and she experience more intense orgasms with strangers than with their respective partners or spouses. In this case, some couples take it from the perspective of the swinger philosophy and at most apply it to achieve supremacy in bed again. But in other cases this dynamic can create irremediable conflicts within the couple itself.
Therefore, the advice for those who want to enter the world of the exchange of couples is to consider that something may not go as expected.